The Art of Relational Magnetism
A 4 month private coaching immersion to identify & shift the hidden relational patterns that shape attraction, pursuit and connection so that you naturally inspire more interest, investment and intimacy from men.
What if dating finally made sense…and the right person felt not just possible, but inevitable?
You’re capable.
Self-aware.
Emotionally intelligent.
You seem like you have it all together. Everyone wonders “Why is she single?”
And the truth is…nothing is obviously wrong.
Which is exactly why this keeps happening.
At work, you’re confident.
With friends, you’re the grounded one.
But dating?
Ohhh that’s a whole other story.
You’ve read Attached a million times.
You’ve been to therapy.
You’re pretty much a quasi-psychologist yourself.
Yet you rarely meet anyone you actually like.
You wonder, am I just too picky? Is my heart closed off to love? Is it the dating pool?
Is it me?
Except, there are a few men that shatter all of that.
You know, those dates where there is an instant recognition - easy conversation, immediate chemistry. It feels like coming home.
Someone who finally sees you. And he feels it too. You let him in.
And then out of nowhere…you feel the energy change.
The slight pull back. It’s subtle but you can feel it.
Just enough distance to make you question everything, but not enough clarity to understand why.
And you? Well you spiral. Not outwardly or dramatically…that’s not really your move.
Rather, you spiral internally- your mind starts working:
Did I say too much?
What happened?
Should I text?
Should I wait?
You feel yourself tighten. You tell yourself to calm down. You know better than to overreact.
You try to do things “right.” Because if you handle this correctly, maybe he’ll stay.
So you edit your words. You keep it light. You keep cool. You don’t share how tender you feel.
Or how much you actually care. Because what if that’s the thing that makes him leave?
Yet he does anyways, because these men are always the emotionally unavailable ones.
And you start to wonder…am I just meant to be alone?
You aren’t meant to be alone.
But there is something happening in your dynamics that you aren’t seeing yet.
Men are way more responsive to you than you realize.
Most emotionally intelligent women are exceptional at relationships - with friends, colleagues, even the barista.
But romantic dynamics are just a completely different thing. And nobody ever taught you how they actually work.
The way attraction builds - or is interrupted - isn’t a dramatic moment or a big mistake. It happens moment by moment, and it’s more subtle than you think.
And these hidden micro-patterns - the ones your nervous system runs automatically to keep you safe - are driving your dating reality.
Not your looks, the apps, or the dating pool.
They shape who you attract, who you let in, and if your dynamics plateau or grow.
When you learn to shift this architecture, men respond differently. You attract different men. And you feel differently while you’re dating.
This isn’t another rule - it’s a mechanism. And when you understand it, change happens fast.
You don't need to excavate your father wound to change your patterns with men.
Most approaches send you deeper into your wounds or give you an entire handbook of rules to follow.
We do it differently around here. I pinpoint your precise micro-blocks and give you targeted exercises to shift them in real time.
This is why women often see changes immediately…because we don’t sit around continuing to analyze you, we put you in motion.
Welcome to
The Art of Relational Magnetism
What if…
You had a pool of men you could actually build a life with - not just settle for whoever shows up.
You were confident in your dating decisions - no more questioning “Was that a red flag?” “Should I have given him another chance?”
When a man pulled back slightly, you didn’t assume you “did something wrong,” and knew exactly how to respond in a way that allows the right connections to grow.
You knew how to say “I really like you,” in a way that made him move towards you.
And, you could find a man who could truly meet you -not through endless swiping or settling. Because you stopped getting in your own way.
Because you don’t just want a relationship,
you want a man who falls in love with all of you.
Not the polished version who always says the perfect thing. Not the “cool, fun girl” who doesn’t care. Not the hyper-independent woman who is good being single.
Your tender heart.
Your complex emotions.
Your insight and wisdom.
You don’t want to play games - you want an authentic connection, one where you can be yourself.
You want chemistry on every level - emotionally, intellectually, physically, and lifestyle wise.
You want a partner to do life with - a best friend, someone to build a family and home with.
And you want to be deeply, fully, and effortlessly loved.
Without becoming someone else first.
And you can. Not by editing your words, pretending it’s fine, or suppressing your emotions…
But by identifying your hidden relational patterns - and shifting them to naturally inspire more of his interest and investment.
All of this is possible in
The Art of Relational Magnetism
You don't think your way into love.
You move your way there.
This work happens across three layers.
Awareness of the exact blocks that are holding you back
Before you can shift a pattern, you have to be able to see it - and most people are blind to what’s actually blocking them. My gift is seeing the hidden relational patterns that are driving your dating reality - the places you're protecting yourself without knowing it. This is the map. And once you have it, you’ll no longer be confused in dating.
Targeted micro-practices that shift attraction dynamics immediately
Next, I will give you small, targeted experiential practices designed for your exact pattern. Not generic dating advice or rules follow. These are precise, high leverage actions that shift how men actually respond to you and how you feel in yourself immediately. These are small interventions that create fast results.
Rewiring your subconscious to instantly change how you feel
Lastly, we will work with your body and nervous system in session to re-pattern any resistance parts. Because attraction patterns are largely driven by automatic subconscious responses and habitual ways of relating intended to keep you safe, you have to go to the source to see long-term change.
Together, these three layers are the Relational Repatterning Method™
What we cover
The Foundation
Months 1 &2
The three hidden elements for a magnetic dating profile
How to swipe for better matches without the exhaustion
How to elicit his masculine leadership in app conversations (get asked out more!)
Feminine energetics that attract men that are attuned, generous, and naturally pursue.
Experiential attraction practices that change the way men respond instantly
Somatic exercises so that you trust yourself versus second guess yourself in dating
In the Field
Months 3 &4
The three questions to determine whether you should keep seeing him - no more second guessing.
The six subtle red flags that prevent you from getting played or wasting time
Creating intimacy in a way that inspires more of his investment
Exploring your “icks’" to get to the bottom of whether you are picky - or just discerning.
How to communicate around him pulling back or not committing so that the right men lean in
Listening to the universe and your own intuitive hits to date with more ease, certainty, and calm.
This is for you if:
You're self-aware and have done the work - therapy, books, inner child healing - and you're still stuck in the same patterns
You’re great at relationships in general…but something just isn’t translating to dating.
You rarely meet men you actually feel something for, and when you do, it always seems to go the same way
You're analytical and tend to live in your head — and you sense that this is part of what's getting in the way
You're successful everywhere else in your life - work and friendships come naturally to you.
You don't want rules to follow - you want to understand the dynamics deeply enough to trust yourself
You're ready to actually date - to go out there, experiment, and work with what comes up in real life
And you’re ready to find a partnership to match the woman you are.
That is what is possible for you right now in:
The Art of Relational Magnetism
Your Questions, Answered
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Therapy is wonderful as a foundation for self compassion and understanding yourself, but therapists are like General Practitioners - they are not trained in attraction dynamics, male psychology, or subconscious patterning which are fundamental to dating success. The work I do is highly specialized and focused on present dynamics, not the past.
Beyond that, therapy often centers around analysis, the conscious mind, and self-discovery. My coaching work is much more oriented around direct reflections, emotional truths, and experiential learning which is designed to influences your subconscious mind.
Traditional Dating Coaching often doesn’t work for similar reasons. General rules won’t work for your specific pattern and often keep you in your head, disconnected from self. -
Women start this work at all places. A lot of time dating feels overwhelming because of past experiences - my work helps you move through that and get back out there. That said, if you don’t plan on dating for the next 4-6 months, I would recommend holding off until you feel more ready. This work is tough to do hypothetically.
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No. Rules without understanding are just more things to manage in your head. What I will do is help you understand the dynamics deeply enough that you know what's right for your specific situation — and you can trust yourself to make that call. The goal is self-trust, not compliance.
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No, but I will challenge the difference between a genuine lack of attraction and a protective pattern that's closing you off before you've given yourself a chance to feel anything. That distinction often gets overlooked.
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Most sessions include brief somatic work, real time coaching around what’s alive for you, and a targeted exercise, teaching or lesson. At times, we will go deeper into your subconscious parts, but that varies based on each client’s needs and level of resourcing. There will also be an assignment after each session to help you to put what you’re learning into practice.
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Most clients’ patterns emerge with me in session, in between, or even on a sales call! Because I hold the masculine role as the coach, I am getting to experience you as the feminine. I also discover your patterns through what exercises you are resistant to and the play-by play about how your dates unfold.
Examples of micro-patterns are asking a lot of questions, taking the lead in a session, or keeping your responses to my questions short. These are just a few examples - there are COUNTLESS micro-patterns and everyone has a unique combination. -
The main qualification of this work is to be resourced enough to confront your patterns and take action in real life. Dating absolutely can be activating, and it’s super important to feel relatively solid in yourself before starting. Not perfect, but some level of resilience!
For those who have experienced a lot of trauma or are navigating a lot of dysregulation at this time, I would recommend doing some nervous system or trauma informed somatic work before getting started. -
I’m a clinical Hypnotist certified by Grace Smith of the Grace Method, an Integrative Nutrition Coach through IIN, and an Integrative Attachment Coach through Thais Gibson of the Personal Development School.
That said, this work is not clinical by nature, as dating is an art not a science. My expertise truly comes from 3+ years of client experience, my own lived experience, and mentorship from various Polarity teachers and Subconscious Reprogramming experts.
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Success in this work is not just finding your person, although that’s the ultimate goal! Success happens in 5 layers:
No more confusion about “what I’m doing wrong” - you know what’s happening, how to handle it, and you trust yourself in relationships.
Dating stops feeling heavy, hard, and exhausting and begins feeling light, enjoyable, and relaxing
You move from pessimistic and fearful you’ll never find anyone to a grounded certainty of “He’s coming.”
You attract men and create dynamics that are more aligned with what you actually want
You meet your person!
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I won’t even pretend that I can control love’s timing. And any coach that makes big claims in this space is likely encouraging you to settle. Everyone starts at a different point and has a different nervous system, and while some clients find a relationship as early as 2 months into our container, others take longer. That said, when you commit to this work, finding a partner becomes inevitable.
Words from past clients
“I went from being consumed by relationships to having healthy relationships that are completely different from my past.”
“Liz makes vulnerable subjects easy to talk about. I went from being self-conscious, comparing myself to others, and being consumed by relationships to feeling less anxious and becoming more aware of my emotions, and having healthy relationships that are completely different from my past relationships. Change can be uncomfortable and seem impossible, but with Liz, you really can picture what you want, who you need to be, and how to get there.”
-Audrey R
“I stopped taking dating so seriously and learned showing up as my authentic self is endearing.”
“I started working with Liz at a time when I truly didn’t think I’d ever get over my past relationship of more than 10 years. Through our work together, I began uncovering patterns I had been holding onto - many that weren’t even directly related to that relationship.
My biggest win during our time together was learning to sit with uncomfortable feelings and lean into them without judgment. That inner work helped me feel more grounded and present in my day-to-day life. I’m still a work in progress, but I’ve become much better at not being so hard on myself. I can now hold more space for my wants, my needs, and my emotions in a way I never could before.
When it comes to dating, I’ve learned not to take it so seriously and that showing up as my authentic self is actually endearing.
Working with Liz has been such a gift. She is incredibly kind and thoughtful, and has the warmest energy. I always felt safe and supported in our sessions, and this experience has truly changed how I view myself and how I move through life.”
-Hayley L
“I trust myself more deeply and I’ve been attracting a lot more men organically.”
I initially reached out to Liz as l was single and struggling to trust that l would find the right partner for me which was making me make unhealthy choices around men and dating. I very quickly felt as ease, heard and seen by Liz but also appreciated her honest and direct approach around what l was experiencing. I was impressed by her knowledge in the field of dating and attraction. I learnt how to stand more firmly in myself and what l ACTUALLY want in a partner. I had long lists of things that weren't actually that important. Getting down to the core needs was super helpful.
Now, l trust myself more deeply, l have been secure in dating and have been attracting a lot more men organically through life as l am not holding on to tightly. I am more clear on what l want in a partnership and giving myself permission to see it as a journey. I feel l am less in a place of need for partnership and seeking and more in a place of surrender and deep trust which has made all the different. “
-Catherine E
The Art of Relational Magnetism
includes…
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Four months of private access to Liz where we will fully deep dive your dating life together. No more figuring this out alone - I’m with you every step of the way.
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60 minute bi-weekly sessions on Zoom with a new teaching each week, curated specifically based on you and where you are in your journey
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You’ll have access to Liz on Voxer for 2 days a week in between sessions. This is where the magic happens and where you can get support on things like “Should I text him or hold off?”
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Powerful video teachings, somatic practices, reflections, journaling, and educational resources that cover everything from attraction, dating apps, subtle red flags, male bonding, communication frameworks and more!
You can keep dating the way you have been - trusting that eventually it will just work.
Or… you can understand why it hasn’t, and finally change the pattern.
When you do this, finding your person becomes not just possible, but inevitable.