Ready to go from situationship to soulmate?
If you’re a women in her 30s-40s who is the full package: smart, successful, funny, social, considerate…and has even gone to therapy, yet is still single, you’re in the right place.
There are a lot of “theories” as to why great women are single…
The rise of dating apps, creating choice overload & burnout
All of the emotionally unavailable, non-committal men
Being “bad” at flirting
But there’s actually completely different happening.
In the last few decades, modern women have transformed.
Not only are women expected to be giving, selfless, and kind - they are also expected to be successful and accomplished.
With the rise of the career woman, our society (and family systems) reward hard work, success, intellect, accomplishments, routines, and extroversion, and social charm. Women who direct their energy outward.
While these skills & mindset are great in your career or at a networking event, its led to modern women over-developing their masculine psyches, leaving their feminine psyche covered up, lost, or simply underdeveloped.
And the problem is, most women approach dating from their masculine psyche.
This looks like…
STRATEGIZING: Memorizing dating rules, reading relationship books, listening to endless podcasts to “study” how to relate to men, analyzing texts, wondering what he’s thinking and how you can best shift to be what he desires
PLANNING: Making the reservation, scoping out the best table, flagging down the waitress. Doing the work to “pitch in”
CARETAKING: Therapizing him, coaching him, holding space, digging in to his problems, bringing him coffee to work, making him his favorite pasta on the fourth date
LEADING the INTERACTION: asking him questions, feeling responsible to fill the space in the conversation, and keeping things “going.”
CONNECTING WITH THE HEAD: Trying to be funny, smart, impressive. Lots of small talk. Saying your emotions in a direct, non-emotional “mature” way (often corporate world approved)
PERFORMING by being a chameleon - being super easy going, agreeing to go hiking when you’d actually rather go to a winer bar. Or putting on a “show” - being extra charismatic, high energy, to entertain him.
This inadvertently flips the polarity, moving men into their feminine psyches. This leads to a dynamic where a man is “go with the flow,” un-intentional, and ultimately…doesn’t feel inspired to commit.
When a woman dates from her feminine psyche, she inspires commitment because she allows a man to make micro-investments in her overtime.
Micro-investments aren’t just financial, they are emotional and energetic, for example, planning a night out, asking a thoughtful question, driving to your neck of the woods, feeding your dog, holding space while you vent, cooking you your favorite lasagna, etc. When women take the lead in these types of investments, they put a man into his feminine. When she allows him the chance to invest through his relational leadership, it naturally leads to macro-investments like commitment.
not to mention…
Your feminine psyche is key to:
Spotting red flags from her nervous system - knowing who is right and wrong without a checklist.
Knowing & expressing needs in a way that moves a man - because she is connected to the signals of her own body - using it like a compass.
Trusting, surrendering, and allowing what is, so that finding a partner no longer feels like its this urgent thing that you must figure out ASAP.
Feeling deeply empowered to stand up for herself - setting boundaries and cutting the wrong men off, unappologetically).
Being radiant & feeling alive - the most attractive energy to be in (whether you are dating or not!)
Feeling connected to creative solutions and the universe’s path for you - actually hearing that ping to go to the coffee shop 15 minutes away. Where your guy is waiting.
this is exactly what I teach you to do in:
Relcaiming Her
A 16 week 1-1 program for single, corporate, professional women 30+ to re-connect to their feminine psyche & attract their guy.
in Reclaiming Her, you will learn to connect with lost pieces of you:
intuition & instincts
Your superpower in knowing who is ready and uniquely right for YOU.
pleasure
Your connection to joy and excitement. That zest for life that gives you that elusive magnetism and allows you to attract men just be your being.
intimacy
Your ability to deeply connect and inspire a man from the heart (not the head)
emotions
Your gift of feeling and expressing from the body to move and open up a man.
power
Your agency, deep worth, and the way you move in dating. Your standards, boundaries. Asserting yourself in a way that makes him respect you.
tribe
Your sense of the type of man who will help you thrive plus your ability to create layers of connection to support you.
By the end of our journey, you will:
Attract men in the wild with ease - no more wasting your time swiping endlessly on the dating apps.
Know who is wrong vs right for you - without second guessing yourself and overstaying in the wrong relationships
Move men to feel inspired to text you more and commit, without you having to keep tell him your needs.
Feel radiant, alive, confident, and calm, whether or not you’re in a relationship.
That is what is possible in
Reclaiming Her
Words from past clients
“Liz makes vulnerable subjects easy to talk about. I went from being self-conscious, comparing myself to others, and being consumed by relationships to feeling less anxious and becoming more aware of my emotions, and having healthy relationships that are completely different from my past relationships. Change can be uncomfortable and seem impossible, but with Liz, you really can picture what and who you want to be and get there. Liz supports you along the way and makes the process fun 😊
I initially reached out to Liz as l was single and struggling to trust that l would find the right partner for me which was making me make unhealthy choices around men and dating. I very quickly felt as ease, heard and seen by Liz but also appreciated her honest and direct approach around what l was experiencing. I was impressed by her knowledge in the field of dating and attraction. I learnt how to stand more firmly in myself and what l ACTUALLY want in a partner. I had long lists of things that weren't actually that important. Getting down to the core needs was super helpful.
The changes l've seen is that l trust myself more deeply, l have been secure in dating and have been attracting a lot more men organically through life as l am not holding on to tightly. I am more clear on what l want in a partnership and giving myself permission to see it as a journey. I feel l am less in a place of need for partnership and seeking and more in a place of surrender and deep trust which has made all the different. “
“It’s been really nice to have Liz by my side on this journey.
Liz crossed my path at the right time. I saw her posts on Instagram and thought: wow, she gets me. I was like: should I do this, should I do this, should I should I should I (her coaching). And I’m glad that I did. Liz is very good at what she does. She mixes being empathetic and professional very well. It was so good to know while being in the “arena” (aka, dating) that I knew Liz were there, that I could ask for her guidance any time.
Liz helped me gain confidence. I learned setting boundaries from her, speaking up for myself, telling what I need and want. Showing the real me, all of me - which is, of course, a work in progress :) If there’s one line that will always stick to me, it is this one: “you only know if someone is right for you, if you show them the fullness of who you are". Thank you to Liz for holding the space.
Reclaiming Her
includes…
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4 months of private access to Liz
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60 minute bi-weekly sessions, virtually via Zoom. Sessions are used for questions around implementation of the material as well as energetic work (this is where I use Hypnotherapy & other somatic techniques).
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You’ll have access to Liz on Voxer for 2 days of your choice in between sessions. This is where the magic happens - in between sessions as you integrate the principles of what you're learning.
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Somatic practices, reflections, journaling, and educational resources to help you deepen your journey even further
Who this journey is for:
Professional single women: especially those in the corporate world, business owners, demanding professions like doctor, lawyer, real estate agents, or giving professions like therapists, teachers, nurses, or healers.
Women who have already have a basic understanding of their patterns & the way their past has influenced their present (ideally, you have done some therapy or a form of self development work)
Women who desire a committed relationship with a mature, healthy masculine man (no flings or casual relationships)
Women ready to actually date (we can’t do this work hypothetically)
Some women in relationships: I can support select relationships, let’s talk if you’re already committed & want to work on polarity vs landing a man!
Who this journey is not for:
Women who want rules, scripts, or playbooks to hook a man
Women who are still dealing with a lot of trauma, reactivity, or deep insecure attachment (I am trauma informed but this is not therapy)
Women who do not want to go inside their own bodies for wisdom, answers, and deeper connection
Women who want a quick fix and easy way to “win over a man”
Meet your guide:
Hi, i’m Liz.
You’re smart, so you probably want my resume…what makes me qualified to lead you in this work?
I’ll give you my stats, but more importantly - I’ve been there.
On the outside, I had it all figured out. An Ivy League Graduate, making 6 figures before I was 25. Living in a cool apartment in Brooklyn with a solid group of friends. Life seemed good.
Yet on the inside, things were in shambles. Deeply sensitive, I fluctuated between debilitating anxiety when I didn’t get a text back to a sense of numbness and hopelessness about my love life. I’d been single for nearly a decade. My friends assured I was “a good catch,” but if that was the case — what gives??
I tried therapy. It didn’t work. I did inner child healing. It helped. Then I found Polarity Work and began working on my relationship to my inner and outer feminine psyche. I applied it in dating. Everything changed.
Now I’m 32, and I live in Denver with my sweet cockapoo and dream guy. I quit my lucrative Corporate job to lead other professional women in finding the love of their lives - through reclaiming their own feminine cores and navigating the trials and tribulations of modern dating.
And yes, I’m a certified Hypnotherapist, Integrative Attachment Relationship coach, and I’ve supported 100+ women in their love lives.
Ok, have I convinced you yet!?
Apply for
Reclaiming Her
After reviewing your application to confirm you’re a good fit, I’ll send you a message on Instagram to further discuss. You’ll also be invited to an optional clarity call to get all of your questions answered.
