
are you struggling to heal your Anxious attachment style through talk therapy?
Do you tend to attract Avoidant or emotionally unavailable men who won’t fully commit to you…and you don’t know why?
Do you panic when you don’t receive a text back or he takes some distance even though you *know* its irrational?
Do you overanalyze every interaction, text message, and facial reaction your man makes? …oh no - is he mad at me?!
Do you struggle to communicate boundaries and assert your needs when dating?
Do you obsess over your relationship or man constantly, especially when there is an issue?
Do you over give in relationships in attempts to get affection or more commitment from your man? Leaving you feeling burnt out and resentful?
Do you struggle being single or letting go of misaligned connections? Almost like you don’t feel “whole” unless you have a partner?
Do you find yourself people pleasing or shrinking yourself in order to appease your man?
Do you experience self doubt and feel like maybe you’re just not “good enough” to be in a healthy relationship?
Have you spent years and hundreds (or thousands!) of dollars in talk therapy, yet haven’t been able to figure out the WHY behind your behavior or make meaningful change?
if yes…you probably have subconscious blocks preventing you from showing up as your most secure, authentic, grounded self.
here’s the problem:
Talk therapy only gets you so far when the root of your Anxious Attachment exists on a deep, subconscious level.
Ps. Because your attachment style is a system of beliefs formed when you were a child, it doesn’t live in the conscious mind (the part that we use in a talk therapy session)…it lives in the subconscious!
you can shift to a secure attachment style faster by healing the subconscious.
tools like hypnosis help us to rewire the neural pathways in our subconscious to build a healthier system of beliefs around relationships - and ourselves!
so imagine if you could…
feel so grounded and secure within yourself that an unanswered text message didn’t phase you?
communicate your boundaries and expectations in a direct yet feminine way, getting what you WANT from men?
attract healthy relationship experiences, healing the Anxious-Avoidant dynamic once and for all?
navigate dating & relationship triggers with calm, ease, and rationality?
speak your needs, beliefs, values, perspectives and ideas freely - even if they conflict with others (goodbye people pleasing!)
receive affection from your man and get your needs met without having to give, give give?
feel so safe and fulfilled in yourself that you’re truly in love with life - with or without a partner?
show up confidently as your most authentic and magnetic self, no matter what the situation?
It’s time to stop just talking about making change.

introducing…
the Secure Dating Formula
A combination of hypnotherapy, conscious coaching, and attachment education
how it works
Secure Dating Formula is a 16 week, high touch program that gives you 1-on-1 support to help you to heal your Anxious Attachment style.
Week 1-2: Intake & relationship history
The first session will give you a baseline of your relationship patterns - we’ll dive into your struggles, define your goals, and explore your relationship & family history.
Week 3-4: Nervous System Regulation
This is the foundation! Learn how to resource, release negative emotions, and create groundedness, and calm within your body so that you can self regulate during potentially anxiety inducing dating experiences - whether that’s going on a first date or experiencing a dating prospect not texting you back. No more losing sleep over men!
Week 5-6: Learn attachment theory & identify core wounds
You’ll learn all about attachment styles including how they develop and common behavioral patterns, with a special focus on Anxious Attachment. You’ll identify your own core relationship wounds and patterns and begin to heal them using inner child techniques.
Weeks 7-8: Understand your triggers and meet your shadow
This week, you’ll dive deeper into your triggers, learning how to question your stories and rewire your negative beliefs about self. You’ll also discover your shadow, learning why you attract certain types of relationships and healing any perceived flaws that might be preventing you from being completely authentic and open.
Week 9-10: Discover your needs and build a sense of self
In this step, you’ll focus on identifying your own core needs to live a truly fulfilling, aligned life, with or without a partner. You’ll learn how to meet your own needs so that you can create a foundation of security and self-reliance, a key component of becoming securely attached.
Week 11-12: Define boundaries and learn empowered communication
You’ll get crystal clear on your own needs and boundaries in a relationship. Additionally, you’ll become confident in your communication by learning how to give feedback, especially in the early dating stages. We’ll navigate common dating scenarios - ie. when he won’t commit, leaves you hanging for days, asks for sex, etc.
Week 13-14: Navigate dating and relationships IRL
Now that you’ve focused on your own inner world, it’s time to apply your learnings to your relationships! Learn how to assess men in the early dating stages through somatic-body techniques and identify red flags so that you can filter out men that are won’t be able to meet your needs or simply aren’t right for you. You’ll also learn how the Anxious function with other Attachment styles as well as the importance of receiving in your relationships.
Week 15-16: Integration: Putting it all together, the final session will allow you to tie up any loose ends and revisit any concepts that you’re still struggling with.
What else does the Secure dating formula include?
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Combining subconscious work and coaching, we’ll dive deep to discover the root of your attachment and heal any previous traumas or memories that are impacting your attachment style.
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You’ll receive video modules with education on all of the topics from weeks 3 - 14 (nervous system regulation, attachment theory, shadow work, meeting your own needs, empowered communication/boundaries, dating & relationships in real life)
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You’ll receive access to Liz via audio messaging one day a week to receive additional support between sessions
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You’ll receive hypnosis recordings to help you reinforce and integrate between sessions.
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Journaling prompts, worksheets, somatic techniques, educational resources, challenges, and more to help you put all of your learnings into action.
words from past clients…
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“Liz makes vulnerable subjects easy to talk about. I went from being self-conscious, comparing myself to others, and being consumed by relationships to feeling less anxious and becoming more aware of my emotions, and having healthy relationships that are completely different from my past relationships. Change can be uncomfortable and seem impossible, but with Liz, you really can picture what and who you want to be and get there. Liz supports you along the way and makes the process fun 😊 Thank you SO much!”
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“Liz has been instrumental to my healing journey. She provides a safe space every sessions with her warm demeanor. She’s incredibly understanding, empathetic and accepting. I feel 10 pounds lighter after we meet. I’ve found great success with the tools she’s given me. She’s truly changed my life for the better!”
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“Liz is an amazing coach who is super easy to talk to, listens well, and is constantly encouraging. Whenever sharing some of my personal struggles, I never felt judged which was so important to me. Liz is intentional about celebrating your progress and making sure that you're getting the most out of her program according to your personal goals and needs. She was also very responsive whenever I reached out with any questions I had in between our sessions. Also, I greatly appreciated how her program takes a holistic approach that goes beyond just the surface level. Thank you, Liz!”
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“I have been in talk therapy with the same therapist since I was 18 (10 years). Talk therapy helps me tremendously, but I have some past trauma that I have a hard time talking about, accessing, healing and changing.
I went into hypnotherapy with Liz with an open mind, and I was really taken back by the experience. I was able to go places I have not been able to go before and I had a very cathartic cry.
During hypnosis, I was having a conversation with my deepest subconscious self and my therapist. When we were done, I was able to remember everything and I felt as If I had released some deeply trapped emotions, thoughts, and memories. I was also able to understand some things about myself a bit clearer. It is not a 1 session fix, but its a start.
I would absolutely recommend Liz - she made me feel so safe and comfortable.”
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“Being in hypnosis was amazing and unlike any experience I've had before. I was in the most relaxed state I've experienced and was able to come to some realizations about myself and my behaviors that I've been confused about for years.
Liz was super informative about the process before we began and made me comfortable from the jump. She presented herself in a very warm, welcoming and kind way which helped assist me to get into a more relaxed and open state. I was surprised how good I felt after the hypnosis session and walked away with a new mantra for myself and tools to practice self-hypnosis.
Liz has my highest rating and I recommend trying hypnotherapy to anyone struggling with behavioral, cognitive or other issues within themselves!”
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“My session with Liz was one of the most powerful things I have done in my life. I’ve done meditation and breathwork before, but what is different about hypnotherapy is that it helps you to access your Big T and Little T trauma from childhood, which gets stuck in your body, builds up, and creates tension, which results in roadblocks in your life.
I felt very comfortable with Liz. She created an incredibly safe space. You feel very in control the entire time, so don’t be scared of the word hypnosis. I just felt very relaxed and more apt to open up. She asks great probing questions and helps you to find your the answers within you, helping you to peel back the onion around your own mental blocks.
Her practice is so profound - she literally had me crying within the first 15 minutes. I highly recommend Liz to anyone - you will get immediate results, action items, and thoughts - you’ll get an entirely new view of life.”
choose your attachment healing journey
Tier 3
$299
secure dating formula on demand - coming soon!
(online modules only, no 1-1 coaching)
Tier 2
$799
Four 1-1 sessions with Liz + modules 1-3 of Secure dating formula
recommended package
Tier 1
$1499
eight 1-1 session with Liz + all 6 modules of secure dating formula
Not sure what option is right for you or need more clarity if SDF is a good fit?
ps. payment plans are available for Tiers 1 &2, ~$385-415/month
faqs & other important details…
q: who is this program for?
A: This program is geared towards Anxiously Attached women who are seeking to heal their Attachment wounds. Please keep in mind that I am an Attachment coach, not a Relationship coach - this program is about healing YOUR inner wounds and is not couples or marriage coaching. Also, Fearful-Avoidant/Disorganized attachment styles are welcome to join - you will resonate with much of the content.
q: who is this program not for?
A: Because I am not a licensed therapist, I ask that you use your best judgement if you’ve had severe or complex trauma. While I have been trained in a trauma-informed way, you may revisit some challenging memories and childhood experiences during the program. For many, this is cathartic and a necessary component of healing, however others may not be ready for that level of intervention.
Q: Does hypnosis work for everyone?
A: Everyone can access the state of hypnosis as it’s a VERY natural state of being. If you’ve scrolled Instagram and gone into a trance like state where suddenly you realize an entire hour has gone by…you’ve been in a form of hypnosis.
However, it can take time for you to intentionally access this state. Like anything, hypnosis is a muscle and takes practice to build up! If you are a seasoned meditator or have practiced other subconscious healing modalities, you will likely be able to access this state more quickly. Additionally, those that have done introspection and therapeutic work will likely be able to access their intuition and subconscious wisdom more quickly than those that are engaging in this work for the first time.
Q: Will I be secure by the end of the program?
A: I’ve designed this program in a way that will give you an excellent foundation to shift to Secure Attachment. However, attachment wounds are generally VERY deeply rooted and has been reinforced MANY times throughout your life. While targeting the subconscious is shown to be significantly quicker than talk therapy alone, it still takes a lot of repetition and emotional activation to rewire your brain. Research shows that it takes a minimum of 60 days to create new neural pathways (which is why I don’t offer one-off sessions) With that, the work you put in between sessions will be essential - like most things, you get what you put in!
Q: What should I expect during hypnosis - I’m scared!
A: It’s normal to be scared, but I promise you hypnosis is actually a super relaxing state! Most people describe it like a guided meditation. My approach is also “maternal” which means that it’s much gentler and more client led than the traditional “paternal” hypnosis that you’re likely familiar with.
Introducing your Attachment Hypnotherapist & Coach
Hi! I'm Liz Harrington, and I’m a certified Hypnotherapist who specializes in Anxious Attachment. Trust me… I know how it feels to be frustrated in dating. For years, I found myself in one of two cycles: attracting unhealthy partners or self sabotaging healthy relationships with my debilitating anxiety and insecurities.
Yup…I was frustrated to say the least.
I spent most of my twenties pouring through every dating and relationship book, googling “how to get my ex back”, and staying in quasi-relationships for years with emotionally unavailable men. I was constantly a doormat, and I would bend over backwards to accommodate and care for my partners and dating prospects, abandoning myself and my own needs in the process.
2021 was rock bottom - uncontrollably sobbing during yet another breakup, he said to me, “You know the real problem is that YOU don’t even think you’re worthy of a relationship.”
That was the moment it hit me - if I didn’t think I was worthy, why would anyone else think I was?!
Shortly after, I learned about attachment styles and realized I was experiencing Anxious Attachment. Yet the thousands of dollars I spent in talk therapy didn’t result in the behavior changes I was hoping for. It wasn’t until I paired those learnings with hypnosis that I was truly able to heal my beliefs about myself and relationships on a subconscious level. And from that place, I was able to incorporate truly helpful dating tactics like direct communication, boundaries, and vulnerability.
This inspired me to get certified as a Hypnotherapist to teach my signature methodology that has allowed me to shift into Secure Attachment - showing up as grounded, confident, authentic, and empowered in all dating situations.
I can’t wait to support you in your journey!
Liz’s certifications
Integrated Attachment Theory Coach, certified by Thais Gibson
IACT Hypnotherapist, certified by Grace Smith (graduated as class Valedictorian)
Holistic Health Coach, certified by Institute of Integrative Nutrition
wait, isn’t hypnosis scary?
I hear this all of the time. There are a LOT of misconceptions about hypnotherapy, so let me help you clear some things up